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Things I Like About Me

by Brandi

I was talking to different friends recently (in separate, individual conversations), about everything and nothing, when something started becoming apparent to me – the longer we talked, the more it seemed that none of us had a whole lot of self-confidence, myself included. Instead of talking about ourselves in a positive way, we were instead extremely critical. It wasn’t a cry for attention; it was more that we find it easier to be negative versus positive when it comes to feeling and talking about who we are and what we do.

Why is it so hard to be proud of the things we like about us? As any woman knows, your girlfriends usually have no problems sharing their experiences; whether they love something or hate it, they share it. It’s in the Girl Code or something. So why does that stop or change when it comes to talking about us as individuals? Is it because we have the notion that pride is a bad thing? Because we don’t want to be seen as bragging or egotistical?

Whatever the reason, I’d like for that to change, at least for myself and for my personal friends (whom I can’t control, but can nag incessantly). I’d like for us to be able to say what we do well without a sense of shame.

With that in mind, I’m joining up with the awesome Just Be Enough crew today, as they list the things they like about themselves. If you’re new here and you don’t know about Just Be Enough, the whole idea behind the site is to celebrate the way you are, just as you are. I always find the JBE posts to be honest and authentic, and they are a big dose of of inspiration for me.

Today’s also a great chance to start actively working on the other part of the things I wanted to invite in this month, things like confidence and acceptance. So, here goes.

 

Things I Like About Me:

    1. When I’m wrong, I have no problem saying so.
    2. I’m quick with an apology if it’s warranted.
    3. I get a big kick out of being a support cheerleader for my friends.
    4. I love learning.
    5. I love that I’m a bookworm.
    6. When I don’t know something, I’m not afraid to say so.
    7. I value honesty more than lying to spare feelings.
    8. I can respect your viewpoint even if I don’t agree or don’t like you.
    9. I can see all sides while still being opinionated.
    10. I’m not afraid of speaking up or standing up.
    11. I’m an excellent brainstormer.
    12. My sense of humor and that I love to laugh.
    13. My hands and fingers.
    14. That I can type 90 wpm.
    15. That I’m pretty much the spitting image of my mom.

 

What about you – what do you like about yourself? Come link up with Just Be Enough!

 

 

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The flip side of invitation

by Brandi

…is actually being prepared to work!

There’s been a couple of times (okay, okay, more than a couple) where I’ve questioned my choice of theme for this month. I’m especially wincing over this particular post where I gleefully listed all of the things I wanted to let go of, because, once again, the universe/Karma has decided to test my willingness and willpower to actually make the changes I said I wanted.

Turns out, I wasn’t really ready to, you know, work on it or anything.

Not to be all self-inflated, but my habit of procrastination is totally an art form. I’m so good at procrastinating that I’m finding it a really tough habit to break, let me tell you.

I could claim that part of it is just resting and taking the time I need, and that’d be semi-correct. I do need this resting time, definitely, for myself and my brain. But then it gets to that point where I know it’s no longer relaxing, it’s indulging. That point is characterized by the ability to put off work in order to devour three books in a week, ordering take-out every day while online shopping because I can’t be bothered to change out of my pajamas to go buy groceries, and the inability to get to bed before dawn.

I’m very, very good at indulging myself.

In total self-disgust and guilt, I sat down last week and started tackling my list of projects. I almost immediately gave up, because I was reminded about the amount of work involved, but I didn’t (go me!). In an effort to keep that ball rolling, and because I’m sure several of you are wondering when exactly I’m going to get the destash beads listed and make some progress on the Elements eclass I was talking about, I’m taking the week off from blogging to focus and work.

In the mean time, may I offer some favorite posts from the archives for your reading pleasure?

If I get myself into shape by Friday, I’ll be back with a color palette. If not, see you next week!

 

 

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Mental vacation

by Brandi

I’m desperately homesick for Hawaii this morning. It’s been three years since I’ve been back, and this is the longest stretch I’ve ever gone without going home. I took it for granted that I’d always be able to visit at least once a year… not so much. So, since it’s on my mind, I thought I’d share a little bit of the islands with you today.

Who’s up for a little mental vacation?


A slideshow to get you started


One of my favorite songs to lift the spirits


A hula halau (group) from last year’s Merrie Monarch festival


A solo hula dancer from last year’s Merrie Monarch festival

(This is a solo competition within the larger festival for Miss Aloha Hula. Traditionally, it starts with chanting, so skip to around 3:40 for the dancing if that’s all you want to see.)

 

 

P.S. I was having a heck of a time embedding these videos this morning. If, for some reason, they don’t show up here, I apologize.

 

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Why I love what I do guest post

A couple of weeks ago, my buddy Ruth from Rock+Purl announced she was doing a new blogging project for the year, Blogstars 2012. She invited her friends over for a weekly guest post series, and since I’ve got a monthly topic or theme for the year, too, it felt just right to participate.

So, if you’ve got a moment, pop over to Rock+Purl to read my guest post about Why I love what I do!

 

 

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The month of invitation

by Brandi

As I was brainstorming ideas for monthly topics, the first that came into my mind was (obviously) authenticity. The second was a little bit of a surprise – invitation – and it came from My ABCs of Important Things.

Like I mentioned on that post, I don’t mean the paper kind of invitation, but the kind of invitation where we allow things and people and opportunities into our lives. Do we invite the positive or the negative? What do we let in?

Invitation implies action and preparation, don’t you think? “Party” comes to mind first when I hear the word invitation, and that’s sort of fitting. When I create a guest list and invite people, I’m planning for an event. I’m planning, prepping, cleaning, and organizing for the big day.

What if it worked the same way for everything? I know that I would feel better if I had a more active role in what comes into my life. It would make me feel more involved, versus a passive participant, and I always seem to do better with a plan of attack. What would happen if I invited an idea or dream, then prepared for it to come? I don’t expect that everything I invite in will show up, but I have a sneaking suspicion that a lot more would come if I opened my mind to the possibility and prepped for what it would feel like. Kind of like the Law of Attraction.

Already so far, interesting things have walked into my life, things that I’d been hoping for but never formally invited in or did anything about. I hope that trend continues, and as certain projects wrap up, I’d love to share them here with you (provided I get the clients’ okay!).

I also wanted to open up for questions. I really loved the responses I got on a lot of last month’s posts, so I thought why not continue the open lines of discussion? So, ask away, any topic you want. I can’t guarantee I’ll respond publicly to every question, but I can promise to read every one and respond privately (especially if it’s personal). Some, if they have a more detailed answer, I’ll turn into a post either this month or next.

Ready, and go!

 

 

Definition courtesy of Dictionary.com. Tape strip from the lovely Katrina of Pugly Pixel.

 

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