I was talking to different friends recently (in separate, individual conversations), about everything and nothing, when something started becoming apparent to me – the longer we talked, the more it seemed that none of us had a whole lot of self-confidence, myself included. Instead of talking about ourselves in a positive way, we were instead extremely critical. It wasn’t a cry for attention; it was more that we find it easier to be negative versus positive when it comes to feeling and talking about who we are and what we do.

Why is it so hard to be proud of the things we like about us? As any woman knows, your girlfriends usually have no problems sharing their experiences; whether they love something or hate it, they share it. It’s in the Girl Code or something. So why does that stop or change when it comes to talking about us as individuals? Is it because we have the notion that pride is a bad thing? Because we don’t want to be seen as bragging or egotistical?

Whatever the reason, I’d like for that to change, at least for myself and for my personal friends (whom I can’t control, but can nag incessantly). I’d like for us to be able to say what we do well without a sense of shame.

With that in mind, I’m joining up with the awesome Just Be Enough crew today, as they list the things they like about themselves. If you’re new here and you don’t know about Just Be Enough, the whole idea behind the site is to celebrate the way you are, just as you are. I always find the JBE posts to be honest and authentic, and they are a big dose of of inspiration for me.

Today’s also a great chance to start actively working on the other part of the things I wanted to invite in this month, things like confidence and acceptance. So, here goes.

 

Things I Like About Me:

    1. When I’m wrong, I have no problem saying so.
    2. I’m quick with an apology if it’s warranted.
    3. I get a big kick out of being a support cheerleader for my friends.
    4. I love learning.
    5. I love that I’m a bookworm.
    6. When I don’t know something, I’m not afraid to say so.
    7. I value honesty more than lying to spare feelings.
    8. I can respect your viewpoint even if I don’t agree or don’t like you.
    9. I can see all sides while still being opinionated.
    10. I’m not afraid of speaking up or standing up.
    11. I’m an excellent brainstormer.
    12. My sense of humor and that I love to laugh.
    13. My hands and fingers.
    14. That I can type 90 wpm.
    15. That I’m pretty much the spitting image of my mom.

 

What about you – what do you like about yourself? Come link up with Just Be Enough!